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Healthy Ways to Release Rage

When circumstances are out of your control, rage ensues but you can control your own reactions. Relaxation techniques or mindfulness often work for lower-intensity anger like frustration or annoyance, but with a feeling as high energy as rage, try to let that energy out in a safe way.


Throw or break something (safely).

Physically throwing something can relieve stress and be helpful in the immediate moment. Have a yard? Get out there with a ball or find some rocks to throw if you have enough space. Or smash something, like a mug or old piece of junk that you’ve been meaning to get rid of. If that’s not a realistic option, get creative - throw something soft (like balled-up socks or a roll of toilet paper) against a blank wall or an apple into the woods (the birds will get it).


Scream – in private.

When you can feel anger boiling inside you, yelling is often incredibly cathartic and can pull you out of that blind rage you may be experiencing. Take care to not startle or worry anyone (including nearby neighbors) by screaming into a pillow. If you’re at work and can take a break for a few minutes, your car is a good option too.

Sing it out.

Put on some music that has anger in it – even if the artist’s anger is different from yours. Channeling your own feelings into the song and expressing that fury can help release some of your own anger.

Dance it out.

Dancing can be a great way to express your emotions, especially when they are so powerful that you can physically feel them in your body. Dance to angry music, happy pump-up music, or no music – just get that excess energy out.


Do a tough workout.

If dancing isn’t your thing, try another form of high-energy exercises, like boxing or sprinting. You can search for free workout videos online or do your own thing, but make sure to push yourself and give it your all if you’re looking for that anger release.

It might feel silly but yelling or grunting while working out might even help you exert more energy.

Journal.

Putting your feelings into words isn’t always easy and writing may not be your go-to technique, but if your mind is spiraling with angry thoughts, dumping them all out onto paper can bring some peace. It doesn’t have to be a big ordeal – even just typing a stream-of-consciousness note on your phone during a quick bathroom break can help calm your mind.


Draw or paint.

Art is often a powerful way to confront your big feelings and turn them into something beautiful. Let go of your work is “good” – allow yourself to create solely to express yourself. Do what feels good rather than focusing on what will look good.


Change your surroundings.

When you can’t quiet your thoughts, a change of scenery – even just going into the next room or stepping outside for five minutes – can disrupt the track that your mind is on.


Destroy a physical representation of your anger.

Print out that email that set you off or write down the things that are upsetting you. Then scribble all over it, tear it up, or put it through the shredder.


Verbalize your anger.

You can always vent to a trusted friend, but sometimes it feels better to pretend you’re talking directly to the person you’re angry at. Pick an empty chair, imagine they’re sitting in it, and yell, scream, or tell them exactly why you’re so mad – whatever feels best to you.


If you’re working to manage your feelings in a healthy way but it just seems impossible, take a mental health screen – you may be dealing with symptoms of a mental health condition.


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